Tuesday, 27 February 2007

The Boyfriend


by Jenny

My little sister, Jenny, tells how a good spanking caused her to realise how much she loved her childhood sweetheart
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I first ‘married' my husband when I was seven years old. He lived a few doors up and was eighteen months older than me. I was playing some game with him and his friends. As I was a tomboy I liked playing with boys and used to tag along with them. I don't know whether Tom minded but he always used to accommodate me, his ‘little Jenny', which looking back on it was sweet of him.

This particular day we were playing a game of a Western movie that Tom had seen on the TV, which involved the hero getting married in the end. Well, as the only girl, I was the obvious choice for a bride, especially as none of the other boys wanted to play a female part. There was just one point where the minister said, ‘Kiss the bride,' where I shrunk away in embarrassment. But Tom, even then, was pretty uninhibited and he kissed me on the cheek before I knew what was happening. I tell you, both our faces were red afterwards!

Tom and I remained friends for years, probably as our families were also friends. Also, because my own brother, Mark, is eight years older than I am, Tom played the part of an older brother to me. Mark was everything a much older brother could be, but Tom was my playmate. I loved him because, even as a young boy, he was always so much fun. I was much more comfortable with boys than girls, and we would play, wrestle and fight together, even when there was no-one else to play with. Then we would go off on adventures based on books we had read.

Of course, like most kids, we also got into trouble together. On one occasion we went off with a box of matches I had found in our kitchen with the purpose of making a fire to roast some marshmallows over. Unfortunately, we inadvertently set a hedge on fire and the owners had to come rushing out with pails of water to put the fire out. They told our parents and our backsides needed a few pails of water by the time our mothers had finished with us!

The friendship continued even in our teenage years, although I never thought of Tom as anything but a friend. In fact, I treated all boys as friends and never thought of dating one until I was 14. I did have a few dates but nothing serious until an event that nearly put me off boys for life.

When I was 15, I dated a lad called Darren, who was two years older than me. My parents did not approve but I think I was trying to push the limits somewhat and I started seeing Darren secretly. Better still was when he borrowed his mother's car and we went out for drives together and ended up kissing in the back seat.

It was nothing really serious until my parents went away one weekend and left my sister, Trish, who was then 20, in charge of the house. Mark had just gotten married but was living locally at the time.

Trish and I went to the church together that evening but, while she had a choir rehearsal, I was meant to go to the young people's group. However, after saying goodbye to Trish, I snuck out and met up with Darren. I had a key to the house and we were going to watch some TV together (I thought) and then I'd get back to meet Trish when her rehearsal finished.

Sadly, like many clandestine relationships, it started to go badly wrong, at least from my point of view. Darren suggested we went to my bedroom and naively I let him come in with me. We lay on the bed and started kissing and then one thing led to another. I knew it was wrong as Darren was fondling me in places I knew he shouldn't touch. I was getting quite excited but at the same time was desperate for this to finish.

Darren had almost undressed me and had actually started pulling my panties off when suddenly I heard a noise downstairs and then heavy footsteps ascending the stairs three at a time. My brother, Mark, had arrived just in time to save me from a really bad situation of my own making. I learned much later that Tom had seen me go off with Darren and, knowing what Darren was like (which I didn't), had gone into the choir rehearsal and told Trish. She had phoned Mark, who drove straight to the house. When he saw Darren's car parked there, he guessed what was happening.

I have never seen anyone look as angry as Mark did on that occasion. He was really protective towards his sisters, me in particular as the youngest. Darren looked scared stiff at the sight of him and bolted from the house, doing his pants up as he went. Mark caught him at the door and warned him if he ever came near me again, he would personally break his neck. When the lad started swearing at him, Mark simply picked him up by his collar and threw him out the house. Darren landed on the lawn and scooted as fast as he could. After all, my brother was a big guy and a pretty good football player.

Due to my brother's intervention, I kept my virginity, but the whole experience put me off dating boys for quite some time. I thought I couldn't trust them. I also had a very painful interview with my parents when they got back, especially with my dad who gave me a right good spanking (one of the few he ever gave me) and grounded me for ages. They were really hurt because I had betrayed their trust and I felt really ashamed of myself for being taken in by a boy. And, of course, my parents – especially my father – kept a very close eye on me after that.

But there was still Tom, my trusted friend. We continued to be pals and have fun together until he went away to college. My parents really liked him and Mom had even asked me why I didn't date Tom. But I thought he was just a friend I could have fun with. As I got older I used to love to tease him unmercifully, sometimes acting the flirt without realizing Tom's feelings for me.

It all came to a head, however, a few days before Tom left for college. Mom invited him round for the afternoon to say goodbye and, as Dad was out on business and my sister, Trish, was also away, Mom and I had Tom to ourselves.

That day I had gotten it on me and was really showing off in front of Tom. I was reveling in my naughtiness and trading on his good nature by teasing him and winding him up. I could see – as always – he didn't quite know how to handle this, that is, until Mom came into the room and sat with us. She quickly sized up the situation and suddenly said: “Tom, Jenny's being a brat. Put her over your knee and smack her bottom!”

Hearing this, I jumped up to run, but Tom grabbed me, turned me over his knee and gave me a couple of light smacks on my butt. Of course, I couldn't take the warning and lay over his knee giggling. “Didn't hurt!” I sang and stuck my tongue out at him as I kicked my legs playfully. Funnily enough, it really felt good just lying across this handsome guy's lap. I didn't anticipate what was coming next, however!

Clearly annoyed by my antics, Mom spoke out: “Can't you see how she's playing you up, Tom? She's just asking for a good, hard spanking. For goodness sake, give her one right now or I will!”

“That's more than you dare do!” I giggled, but my giggles turned into shrieks of anguish as Tom's hand came smacking hard down on the back of my thin sundress. I squealed and wriggled but Tom held me tightly over his knee as he dished out twelve good spanks to my rear. He told me later he'd waited a long time to do that! When he finished I got up clutching my stinging butt, red-faced with shock and rather embarrassed.

Mom laughed: “That's the way to do it!” she said approvingly. Then to me: “You've been asking for that all day, young lady!”

I didn't know whether to laugh or cry so I ran upstairs to my bedroom, no doubt leaving Mom to tell Tom how he could improve his spanking technique! She should know as she was an acknowledged expert at spanking naughty girls. My butt smarted a bit but the main effect on me was a deep fluttering in my stomach. The physical contact had made me suddenly realize just how much I fancied my friend.

I washed my face and put on some make-up. I then went down stairs where Tom was sitting on his own, reading a magazine while Mom was getting the meal ready. I looked at Tom, who hadn't seen me yet. He was my best friend, but now the awakenings of love had come to me, could our relationship be the same? Would he love me or was I just his old playmate?

There was only one way to find out. I decided to be bold and went straight and sat on his lap: “You rotter,” I said, smiling. “I didn't think you'd do that. That really stung.”

“Well, little playmate,” he grinned, “I was only obeying orders”

The closeness and warmth of his body were making me quite excited. I wanted to kiss him and sensed he was feeling the same. So I just grabbed him and kissed him long and gratefully for all the years of friendship that were now blossoming into love. Tom was a bit taken aback, I think, but he soon returned my affection. I looked at him and said, “Tom, thanks for your friendship over the years. But I think I love you.”

He chuckled and said: “I've waited for a long time for you to say that. If I'd have thought a spanking could have done it, I'd have given you one years ago!”

“Well,” I said. “I've been such an idiot not realizing my true feelings for you. Will you forgive me?”

“Forgive you?” he said. “Why not you forgive me for being such a hopeless suitor?”

We kissed again, at which point Mom walked in. We started and both blushed, but she merely mumbled, “Praise the Lord! At last!” before tactfully walking out the room.

The next three days were bliss and I saw Tom as much as I could, helping him get everything ready for college. But when at last we said farewell, I was fighting to hold back the tears. In fact, I felt so miserable and empty without him that I at last realized how much I loved him. I just moped around the house to an extent that Mom threatened to take the paddle to me if I didn't snap out of it.

Well, we solved the problem by me going to the same college and we got married as soon as Tom graduated. We just couldn't wait. We were really hard up financially for the first few years of marriage but are gradually working our way up into a better situation.

On our wedding night, to celebrate the fun we'd had together, and because Tom rather likes it when I'm naughty, I played a series of practical jokes on my husband before we went to bed. Trish had helped me plan them in anticipation. Tom was puzzled at first, wondering what was happening, but my giggling finally gave the game away, and when it finally dawned on him that his newly married wife was responsible, he chased me round the bedroom in my nightwear before putting me over his knee and administering justice while I squealed and giggled. I only hoped the walls of the hotel were soundproof!

I went to my marriage bed with a warm bottom but it seemed poetic celebration of what brought us together. And although having sex for the first time showed our inexperience (a fact that I thanked God for!) it was wonderful to feel the naked strength of my husband's manliness. As we joined together my heart quietly gave thanks. I was no longer a virgin but had saved myself for the man I loved the most.

Of course, we got better at having sex – but that first night was something special. It was fun and celebration combined. As I lay there after such a big day, I thanked God for preserving me and keeping me for this most wonderful man who had come into my life. My boyfriend had become my lover and was now my husband. What more could a girl want!

Thursday, 22 February 2007

Birthday Tradition



by Chrissie

My friend, Chrissie, tells how birthday spankings have always been a tradition in her family and her husband has continued it!










After sharing the story ‘Embarrassing Moment', I thought I might tell the story behind how my husband got to giving me birthday spankings and why we have continued the tradition, because it's part of our story together.

Apparently, birthday spankings were originally based on superstition. Hundreds of years ago, spankings were given for each year of the birthday child's life. Beyond that number, a child received another spank to grow on, one to live on, one to eat on, one to be happy on, and yet another spank to get married on. At one time, it was believed to ‘soften up the body for the tomb.'

Well, I've sure had my body softened over the years! Birthday spankings were part of our family tradition. On my birthday, after the presents, I would be bent over Dad's knee while my friends smacked my panties. They were always fairly light slaps, apart from the ‘one to grow on,' which was firmer and was traditionally given by Mom. The ‘firmness' probably related to how much of a pain I'd been at my party!

We got them at school as well. My second grade teacher would give us a birthday card which all the children had written their names on, then give us a fun spanking over her knee, which the rest of us hugely enjoyed watching as we counted the smacks. When it was my birthday I remember being surprised at how much it stung and wondering whether she spanked me a bit harder than the other kids because I had been so naughty that year! When it was finished I stood rubbing my butt with a surprised look on my face as the class laughed. But it was all in good fun, even though my face was red.

The birthday spankings at my party ended when I was twelve years old. I had a spanking on my thirteenth birthday, but that was a special one over Mom's knee which marked my ‘graduation’ as a teenager. I thought that now I was a teenager I could sass her and not get spanked. She was quick to disillusion me. I had problems sitting down at my party!

I started dating Dan when I was eighteen. He was the most wonderful guy I had ever met and we quickly fell in love. The day before my nineteenth birthday, I showed him some old photos of birthday parties, including one of me getting a birthday spanking.

He jokingly asked: “Will you be getting one tomorrow, Chrissie?” to which cheekily I replied in a wild moment, “Not unless you give me one!”

I then looked into his eyes, fluttered my eyelids naughtily, and said, “I dare you!”

Rather to my surprise he said, “Right! You're on! When shall I do it?”

Of such words are traditions made! I had dared him and was far too spirited to back out. The question was when and where. I certainly didn't want it done publicly and, as we wouldn't be able to see each other until the evening, I told him to come an hour before my party was due to start. We kissed and he left.

I wondered what I'd let myself in for. Dan had never spanked me (or any other girl) before (although I'd had a few playful slaps on my butt from him), and I wondered what it would be like. And where could we go that would be private? I thought of the annex to my parents' house, a room which we now used only for storage. I secretly borrowed the key and put a chair in the middle of the room for Dan to sit on while he did the spanking.

The next day before he arrived I must admit I had butterflies. I was nervous about getting the spanking yet knew I would somehow be disappointed if Dan chickened out. It was perhaps the thrill of the unknown that attracted me. Also, I must admit I fancied going across this good looking guy’s knee! But would I be able to get through it without the embarrassment of tearing up? I thought of some of the spankings I had got from Mom over the years and was reassured! I put on a pair of jeans rather than a dress. I thought I could trust Dan but wanted some protection!

He arrived at the agreed time, looking very handsome, and kissed me. He had a present for me in the car – would I like it before or after the birthday spanking? By now I just wanted to get it over with so I told him ‘after'. I led him into the annex room, made sure all the windows were closed and locked the door.

He surveyed the room, kissed me and said, “Are you ready?”

I said nervously, “Yes!”
“Sure you don’t want out?” he asked.
“No!” I said, recovering a bit of spirit. “Make it a good one!” And I stuck my tongue out at him, with which provocation Dan led me across to the chair, sat on it, and pulled me over his knee.

“Nineteen smacks?” he asked.

“Yes,” I said sassily. “And don't forget the one to grow on!”

I giggled as I squirmed over his knee but the giggles soon turned into squeals as he started spanking me on the seat of my tight jeans. It wasn't that hard – Dan has never been cruel – but it certainly stung a bit! He counted off one to nineteen as I squealed and giggled and wriggled. I hoped no one in the house could hear what was going on, but the annex was fairly sound proof. It needed to be!

After counting nineteen Dan paused, caught his breath, and then said, “And here's the one to grow on,” and gave me the traditionally firmer slap which caused me to yell louder than ever.

He then helped me up and we kissed. He sat me on his knee but I got up quickly! My butt was very warm and rubbing it was preferable to sitting on it! I must admit, however, that I’d enjoyed the experience!

Dan then gave me a lovely present and a wonderful bunch of flowers. “Happy birthday,” he said. “I think you're a great sport. You're my dream girl and I really love you!”

At my party I felt the happiest girl in the world. I thought birthday spankings were great if they produced this reaction in a man! I rashly told Dan afterwards he could give me one every birthday from then on. Foolish mortals that we girls are!

We got engaged a short time later, although we knew we couldn't get married for about another three years due to various training commitments we had. On my next birthday we had arranged, as promised, for me to have a birthday spanking as the year before. I was again waiting in nervous but happy anticipation, so I was taken aback when Dan rang and said he'd been delayed at work and couldn't come till my birthday party was about to start. He'd given me a few fun spankings (always chastely over clothes and never too hard) since our engagement, but this was supposed to be special!

So I moaned somewhat insincerely, “But what about the birthday spanking you promised me?” Don't worry, he said, he'd thought of a way to do it during the evening.

Not with the party going on, surely! But he assured me we would keep it private.

Dan arrived as promised just before the party got going. Halfway through the evening he gave me a nudge and we slipped out for a few minutes. I didn't know where we were going but he drove me to a picnic area he knew about ten minutes away. It was dark and deserted, so I got my twentieth birthday spanking by moonlight under the stars. Very romantic! The only problem was we had to drive straight home afterwards so we wouldn't be missed. The seat in Dan's car was quite hard and he would insist on me wearing my seat belt!

My twenty-first birthday saw us back in the faithful old annex. By now I think Mom had twigged what was going on but didn't let on. She probably thought I needed it! I wore a mini-skirt (which I made sure just covered the subject when I bent over) to give Dan a thrill because I knew I could trust him. However, this proved to be a mistake as I had talked to one of my girlfriends about the birthday spankings I had had when I was younger. The girls had got together and decided, as I was 21, that they should give me one at my party just like I had years before. They held up a large, blown-up photo of me getting a birthday spanking when I was little (I realized later that Mom had been a collaborator) before leading me up to my bedroom (no boys allowed), bending me over the bed, and spanking me hard on my panties!

I should have worn my jeans. Two birthday spankings in one day! They didn't know Dan had given me one a couple of hours before, so my bottom felt it needed an ice pack afterwards. When we came out of the bedroom all the boys cheered, as they knew what had been going on. Dan was grinning all over his face at my discomfort. But he was wonderfully tender and attentive the rest of the evening and gave me a wonderful goodnight kiss in compensation.

The wonderful day we got married happened a few days before my twenty-second birthday. We had a great, romantic honeymoon and Dan arranged a special birthday evening for me as it fell on the last day of our honeymoon. In the morning (when we finally got up) Dan gave me some lovely presents, including some from the family which they'd given him to bring.

We spent the afternoon sunning ourselves by the pool in the hotel. I was wearing a rather small bikini, which obviously gave my husband ideas. I had forgotten all about the birthday spanking, but as we came back to our hotel room, Dan kissed me and said, “Happy birthday, Chrissie! Let's not forget the most important part of your birthday!”

With that he flipped me across his knee and counted out the requisite number of slaps for my birthday spanking. My bikini was still wet and it stung like anything, but I was glad afterwards we had kept the tradition alive. I mean, what great lovemaking we had before we went out! My man – as well as my bottom – was on fire!

The next year was our first anniversary (recalled in ‘Embarrassing Moment') where for the first time I wrote a message for Dan on my panties. The next year, remembering what had happened the previous year, I wrote, ‘Love me tender!' I was a little bit more tender by the time Dan finished!

I feel I can let Dan do things like this because I trust him not to take advantage. Unlike some women I hear of, I don't myself get aroused by the spanking itself, but I do love the thrill of feeling at the mercy of my man, though all the time knowing he would never really hurt me. I know he would stop anytime I wanted him to. Maybe I'll ask him when I'm 80!

I also love the pleasure Dan gets out of it and the way it really turns him on. He is a wonderful husband and deserves his fun. And although I'm on the receiving end, I find it fun, too!

So here's to future birthdays……….